Hurry Up And Wait
“Don’t Just Do Something, Sit There” from the book by Sylvia Boorstein, says it perfectly.
Why are we always in such a hurry? Always rushing, always pushing toward the next thing. Sometimes it’s because we’re running late. Other times, it’s because we want to get out of discomfort, solve a problem quickly, or settle the uncertainty of a decision or relationship.
Even worrying is a kind of rushing. We don’t like not knowing, so our minds speed ahead, trying to escape the uncomfortable space of waiting.
And in the process, life itself gets lost.
We move through our days trying to conquer endless to-do lists. We skip past the present moment—even the enjoyable ones—because our focus is already on what’s next. Our minds are trapped in endless loops of things that wears us down, leaving us on edge, fraught with anxiety, and snapping at the slightest thing. And when it comes time to unwind? We're simply too wired to relax.
“STOP! Be here now. Slow down.”
It sounds simple, but in today’s fast-paced world, it isn’t easy.
What rushing actual does to us
When we’re always in a hurry, our bodies flood with cortisol, the stress hormone, which can undermine our health; and, over time, this can lead to serious health problems, strained relationships, and a mind that never truly rests. Imagine being on a fast-moving merry-go-round: rush to work, tackle tasks, quickly eat lunch, and hurry back. Our minds are always on the go, wearing us thin, leaving us anxious and easily irked. Yet all this rushing leaves us drained, anxious, and unable to relax.
So how do we break free from this cycle?
Ways to Slow Down
Here are some practices that can help:
1. Question before you say yes.
Saying yes to everything works for no one. If you take on tasks without checking whether you truly have time, you’ll overload yourself and end up anxious.
2. Practice saying no.
This is one of the hardest—and most important—skills. Taking on others’ responsibilities puts you in a loop of never catching up and doing things poorly. Saying no creates the space you need to slow down.
3. Stop multitasking.
It feels productive, but it actually scatters your focus. Instead, do one thing at a time. You’ll finish with more clarity, better results, and less stress.
4. Prioritize and track your time.
Not all tasks carry the same weight. Keep a simple to-do list and notice where your time really goes. Awareness is the first step toward better choices.
5. Improve your time-management habits.
Choose what matters most and make space for it. Try waking up earlier, and resist the urge to dive into emails and messages right away. Give yourself quiet time for the things that refill your energy.
6. Literally slow down.
Stop speeding through life—whether in a car or in your daily pace. The minutes you “save” aren’t worth the toll on your body, mind, and safety.
7. Take breaks.
Even ten minutes of true rest can re-energize you. A longer vacation can shift your perspective entirely. Your nervous system needs downtime.
8. Stay positive.
When rushing, negativity creeps in easily. A positive mindset helps you stay motivated and realistic about what you can handle.
9. Manage your emotions.
Stress makes our emotions run high. Practicing self-regulation helps you stay calm, steady, and more effective—even when life gets busy.
Bringing mindfulness into the picture
One simple way to interrupt the rush is to pause and notice:
What am I doing right now?
Why am I doing it?
How does this feel in my body?
That pause creates space. It helps you shift from reacting automatically to responding thoughtfully.
This is also the essence of mindfulness. Anxiety often shows up as physical sensations in the body, triggered by worrying about the future. By noticing those sensations and naming them as anxiety—without trying to fix them immediately—you remind yourself that they will pass.
The more often you practice this awareness, the more your mind learns to step out of worry loops and return to the present moment.
A final thought
Life doesn’t have to be lived at full speed. Slowing down isn’t laziness—it’s wisdom. It’s reclaiming your health, your calm, and your ability to truly enjoy the life you’re living.
If anxiety and rushing are stealing your peace, I’d love to help. Visit my website to learn more or schedule an online consultation with me. Together, we can find ways to bring balance, calm, and clarity back into your days.
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